tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433891002975715644.post7049561199097641719..comments2023-09-17T03:29:45.359-04:00Comments on Skoolboi's Playground: Fool Of MeSkoolboi Krushhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05387558722357812538noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433891002975715644.post-48627737473409278882008-03-31T09:08:00.000-04:002008-03-31T09:08:00.000-04:00I had to make time to respond to this...Here latel...I had to make time to respond to this...<BR/><BR/>Here lately, your blogs never cease to amaze me...very, very insightful. Having said that...<BR/><BR/>Yes, I have been a fool for love a few times. Each time was in a different way, but a fool none the less.<BR/><BR/>Not as guarded as you are, but it's getting harder and harder to allow someone close to me.<BR/><BR/>Timing is everything is matters of the heart.NyRobihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11815076802745609352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433891002975715644.post-13812513417711170212008-03-28T20:45:00.000-04:002008-03-28T20:45:00.000-04:00yes I have been a fool in love... and promised i w...yes I have been a fool in love... and promised i would never lose myself in a relationship again... <BR/><BR/>yes i am completely guarded... i was before my heart was broken and i am even more that way now... it would probably take me almost losing someone i loved before i would take that leap... i know its sad but if a person doesnt demand that you open up, i probably wont<BR/><BR/>i think timing is everything... thats why i believe we shouldnt be so stuck on not going back to ex's after we've dating... i think certain instances you may have not been ready for that person at that time in your life but in the future it could work outEb the Celebhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12920888116302185562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433891002975715644.post-71333614364696835372008-03-27T16:23:00.000-04:002008-03-27T16:23:00.000-04:00dejanae - I can't believe that you've never been i...dejanae - I can't believe that you've never been in love. You seem like a very passionate person.<BR/><BR/>ODiva - I'm waiting for those great answers too. Being with someone who is undeserving is almost as bad as missing out on a good one.<BR/><BR/>All-Mi-T - Preach brother!<BR/><BR/>Smuckers - You know I'll be the loudest person cheering for you when you get that medal. Stop building that wall!<BR/><BR/>Paula - How do you receive love if your guard is always up?<BR/><BR/>GG - That is great advice. Does the guy give out signals that he might "reject" you before you start sabotaging the relationship?<BR/><BR/>Ieisha - You are so right about self-discovery. That has been my mission of late to figure out what I want for me and how to get it without all of the bs that life can bring.Skoolboi Krushhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05387558722357812538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433891002975715644.post-57278552581307578242008-03-26T23:44:00.000-04:002008-03-26T23:44:00.000-04:00Looks like I'm in the minority here b/c I've been ...Looks like I'm in the minority here b/c I've been a fool for love although I like to say that I love hard and deep. Only been 2 indivs that can say they've been loved like that by me.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorta still "foolin for love" right now. <BR/><BR/>Can't say that I've been guarded for very long. I try to be but then someone comes along and changes my mind so I think I didn't have my mind made up that strongly to get it changed so quickly. A hopeless romantic? Probably.<BR/><BR/>Timing...I think the timing has more to do with where you are in your self-discovery than where you are career-wise, financially, etc. It is when you aren't looking that love finds you. In my last/this relationship (told ya it's complicated) I had come to peace with being single based on where I was in life. I had COMPLETELY accepted it and then enters HIM. Threw me for a loop and a curveball. It was with him that love was redefined and I grew most as a person.<BR/><BR/>I'll give you the advice my BFF gave me...Prepare yourself to becoming the best mate you can be for the one that will find you.<BR/><BR/>And it sounds like you're well on your way to getting there; best wishes on the journey.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433891002975715644.post-26296560341872646192008-03-26T17:30:00.000-04:002008-03-26T17:30:00.000-04:00pretty deep...I wouldn't say I've been a fool of l...pretty deep...I wouldn't say I've been a fool of love but I've been blind to what was happening in the background...and still after a huge heartbreak I'm pretty open to love (someone loving me) when I start to catch feelings I do sabotage...run..hide from it..out of fear of rejection and/or break up on his part.<BR/>Timing is the key..when you are ready to open up and stay open and just live in the moment and meet someone at the same place as you are?..now that's beautiful and it doesn't happen often. and you do have to hold on tight even when you think your heart may burst.Gemini Girl aka GGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08259959156950135840noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433891002975715644.post-20925914860133663682008-03-26T15:29:00.000-04:002008-03-26T15:29:00.000-04:00Yep, been the fool twice! I learned from the last ...Yep, been the fool twice! I learned from the last time and definitely guard my heart more dilligently.Paula D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11107241514768232814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433891002975715644.post-23434540466755039472008-03-26T13:09:00.000-04:002008-03-26T13:09:00.000-04:00I admit it...I'm a "love junkie"...and, like you, ...I admit it...I'm a "love junkie"...and, like you, I've oftentimes found myself remaining in a dead relationship(or two) for fear of being alone. <BR/><BR/>I must admit that lately, though, I've found myself slowly building this wall,(surrounded by a hot-lava filled moat with a fire-breathing dragon on guard)....around my heart. And even with all of that, I've found that my heart CAN NOT and WILL NOT be contained. <BR/><BR/>A good heart ACHES to LOVE, but you cannot truly love if you have FEAR. <BR/><BR/>I do believe that timing is everything. <BR/><BR/>So, like you, if and when I meet who I hope to be the "right person", I'll be taking those baby steps...and maybe..just maybe, I'll be at the podium clutching my gold medal, too.Smuckershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10620115455958082345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433891002975715644.post-38135607289673711112008-03-26T11:51:00.000-04:002008-03-26T11:51:00.000-04:00we all play the fool sometimeswe all play the fool sometimesAll-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08843040863123899426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433891002975715644.post-72242885679901657892008-03-26T10:35:00.000-04:002008-03-26T10:35:00.000-04:00"When you meet someone who is worthy of taking a c..."<B>When you meet someone who is worthy of taking a chance for, how do you get out of your own way?</B>"<BR/><BR/>WOW...that is a GREAT question. Hopefully someone will come along with a valid answer, because I am a LOT like you - I'm my own worse enemy when it comes to affairs of the heart. <BR/><BR/>Great questions at the end as well. <BR/><BR/>I can't say that I've seriously been a fool for love, but there was a time or two when I felt like I was with someone who did not deserve my time.<BR/><BR/>In order for me to risk everything, I'm going to need a very patient and somewhat persistent dude...and timing really is everything!Jazzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01186973972482369982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433891002975715644.post-91861526436345010222008-03-26T10:32:00.000-04:002008-03-26T10:32:00.000-04:00never been in loveso no fool was iim guarded oneth...never been in love<BR/>so no fool was i<BR/><BR/>im guarded onetheless<BR/>It'd take patience and the other peron opening up to me so i feel comfortable doing the same<BR/><BR/>don't they say timing is everything<BR/>You have to be in a place where ur ready<BR/>and find someone who's ready to be what u needdejanaehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07052082904553497262noreply@blogger.com