3.13.2008

Step in the Arena

Say baby, can I be your slave?
I've got to admit girl, you're the shit girl
And I'm diggin' you like a grave
Now do they call you daughter to the spinnin pulsar, or
Or maybe Queen of 2,000 moons
Sister to the distant, yet risin' star
Is your name Yemaya?
Oh hell nah, it's got to be Oshun
Oooh, is that a smile me put on your face child
Wide as a field of jasmine and clover
Talk that talk honey, walk that walk money
High on legs that'll spite Jehovah
Shit, who am I?
It's not important
But they call me brother to the Night
And right now
I'm the blues in your left thigh
Tryin' to become the funk in your right


Up until a few years ago, I had not been single since I was 22 years old. I was either dating or married. After my divorce, I had to learn how to date. It has been a very enlightening experience in many ways. The one area that has been the biggest learning experience is sex. As a young man, I was never about putting up big numbers but I had my share of sexual partners. Even though it was with lesser frequency at the end of my marriage, sex was never an issue during that period of my life. As a single man, I have had the pleasure of letting the mo better make it mo better with some very wonderful women. Many of these ladies have proven to be very adventurous, confident and down right bold about asking for what they want in the bedroom. I’ve been more than willing to comply with their wishes. Dating women who are in their sexual prime will definitely broaden your ideas about what you will and won’t do sexually. I honestly think that we aren’t that different though. Matter of fact, listed below are the top five sexual fantasies for both men and women. The list is the same for both sexes. Tell me if you agree with this list or if you have something to add.

1. Stimulating Herself While You Watch
2. Allowing You To Dominate
3. Having Sex In Public
4. Making A Porn Video
5. Inviting A Third Party To Bed

Who am I?
I'll be whoever you say
But right now, I'm the sight raped hunter
Blindly pursuing you as my prey
And I just wanna give you injections, of sublime erections
And get you to dance to my rhythm
Make you dream archetypes, of black angels in flight
Upon wings, of distorted, contorted, metaphoric jism
Come on slim
Fuck yo' man, I ain't worried about him
It's you who I wanna step to my scene
'Cause rather than deal with the fallacy of this dry ass reality
I'd rather dance and romance your sweet ass, in a wet dream
Who am I?
Well they all call me brother to the Night
And right now, I'm the blues in your left thigh
Trying' to become the funk in your right
Is that alright?

9 comments:

The True Urban Queen said...

I can't beleive that #5 (inviting another in) is as popular with women as it is with men. A man probably wrote the survey.

Brittany_83 said...

I only agree with #2. Other than that I am not doing any of the others. lol

Opinionated Diva said...

I'd like to know where they find these people to poll. Like Brit, I'm only down with #2.

#5 - There will be no third parties.
#4 - There will be no videos...because my black azz wont be on Youtube or all over the internet with the release of MY sextape...oh no I wont.
#3 - What is the big deal about having sex in public? It's not all it's cracked up to be...and I speak from experience.
#2 - ding ding ding - I am quite the bedroom bully, but I love a man that can dominate!
#1 - I would MUCH rather he stimulate me.

Loved the poem...especially because it has my name it!

PRO said...

I do #1 mostly for me to get in touch with me. If asked to do it for him, I get impatient because I got the real deal in front of me (and go through the solitary practice of being equipped for sexual success almost on a daily basis; even with a husband around to "do me" a la melissa morgan/prince). #2 is really 50/50 to me. If I came up with the fantasy for him to fulfill it seems to satisfy my secret desire to be in control. If I'm merely a supporting actor I'm happy to play that part as well; still feeling like I'm wanted (to be playing the part). #3 I definitely cosign. Although does during a dimly lit movie count as "public" just on the premise that you could get caught?
#4 I just had a girlfriend make mention of this because her SO wants one to cherish when she isn't around. I told her nowadays all our asses end up on YouTube. I guess that's like making it in the Porn Industry for Dummies. *lol* And finally #5 is something I hear often, but still don't have a desire to troll the club/grocer/church *lol*/etc. looking for "mister or missus right now" to bring home to our marital bed. If I want a "manwhich" mister ain't down for that; and of course I don't desire another woman. So as it remains deadlocked.

Love the prose.

Vivrant said...

Man oh man! Who didn't want to give Larenz the panties after that one. LOL! I might have to go home and watch that tonight!

I missed something - did this come from an official survey or is this what you think they are? In any event, I ain't putting my bidness in the street and answering one by one! Let's just say it's VERY liberating to be a vibrant, healthy, sensual woman in her prime. Whenever I hear this one Marvin Gaye song (remade by Will Downing)...describes me to me to a tee.

I know it's only going to get better from here. I just think I may need an Ashton though.

You know looking at tsome of these answers I am beginning to believe what they say about a large percentage of black folk being more conservative that one would think. Hmm...

dejanae said...

ha
thats list looks about right

Skoolboi Krush said...

ttuq - Yes, a man conducted the survey but the answers are legit. I know a few women who would love a third party to join the session.

brittany - You probably got a whole different list that's freakier than this one. LOL

ODiva - Let's discuss your bedroom bully tactics. Let me find out that you are whippin' it on dudes.

pro - It's all about the risk of getting caught.

Vivrant - I don't want to hear about you strollin' through high school basketball games looking for a young pupil. LOL The survey actually comes from a respectable men's magazine.

dejanae - Somehow I knew you would be feeling this list.

MsMarvalus said...

Interesting...I'll just leave it at that...

Smuckers said...

1. Done THAT!!
2. Done THAT!!
3. Done THAT!!
4. Will Do THAT (you have to be my hubby, though)!!
5. Done THAT!!

I guess I need to make a new list. LOL...