1.15.2008

It's All In The Stars

I am usually not a believer in Astrology but when I read this description of the Gemini Man I was struck by how on point it was. If you ever had a question about who I am, this is me:

"If you are one of those who need a constant reassurance in love, then don't even think of getting close to a Gemini man. He will always be there for you, but it will not be the same as being always there with you. His characteristic profile makes him restless and fidgety; so don't expect him to be at the same place for too long. Being suspicious wouldn't do much good either. If you still want to be with him, prepare yourself to accept his impatience. Once you have done this, you will be treated to the company of two, at times three-four men.

A Gemini male has a dual nature, which can get extended to three-four different personalities too. His typical personality traits include friendliness, love for people and getting along with almost everyone. He can talk on any topic under the sun, is an excellent conversationalist and has a witty nature. More often than not, he becomes the life of a party. Are you are thinking of dating him after seeing him at one of these parties? Go ahead, what he displayed at the party was his true self, but then, don't forget that he has three-four other identities also.

One day, he may bring you flowers, candies and cards without any occasion. The very next, he may not meet you even after confirming the meeting just an hour back. Two days after that, he may turn into your worst critic. Then, suddenly he will be the same guy he was on the first day. You will be treated like a queen and start feeling like one too. Then, one day, he will suddenly propose you and you will forget all that happened in the past and say 'Yes'! Now comes the main part, when you have to live with a walking-talking enigma.

If you are in love with a Gemini guy, forget terms like stability, security and consistency. In case you are extremely sensitive, it is better to move away now. However, if you can digest his quirkiness without complaining, you will be leading a life full of surprises and at times, shocks. You will be waking up with a different man each day (not literally!), though the change may be for the better. Just stay a little distant from him; too much closeness makes him nervous. Gemini men have a personal side, which they will never share with anyone, not even with their lover.

The best way to extinguish the flame between both of you is to bring monotony and boredom into your relationship. He will run away. He loves, infact needs, change. Just be as curious and as interested in life, and its different aspects, as he is. He wants a female who can catch up with him mentally. A Gemini man will never mind if you defeat him at his mind games every now and then, infact he will be thrilled at getting an intelligent partner-cum-competitor. He is not an egoist and will want you to express your intelligence.

A woman with brains turns him on. Geminis tend to move over old friends and make new ones, but that's because their personality changes so frequently that people find it difficult to cope up with them. They love people and loneliness disturbs them. To win the heart of a Gemini male, just assure him that you are the one who will always be near him, but won't get too close to him or lean on him. He will gladly take you with him and let you see all that he sees. He is usually generous with money, but may turn stingy at times.

However, his basic nature includes a sharing attitude, in case of money, knowledge, happiness and almost everything. A Gemini man is too idealistic to indulge in adultery and loyalty is something you will not have to worry about. However, he may throw admiring glances at the hot babes on the beach. Just don't doubt him; it may trigger him to do something he didn't even think of doing before. You may try as much as you can to hide your suspicions from him, but he will be able to guess and that would make him miserable.

A Gemini guy loves an audience, whether it comprises of males or females. However, it will never go beyond that, unless of course you doubt him. Just like he has male friends, he will have female friends too. It is better if you make them your friends too. Don't try to bind Gemini men too much and let them have their independence and freedom. In return, they will do the same for you. They make excellent fathers, who are more like buddies to their children. A Gemini man will cuddle them with love, compete with them like a friend and protect them like a father.

However, you will have to take over the responsibility of disciplining them. A Gemini male is not prone to jealousy and he will never be extremely possessive. He will trust you as much as he expects you to trust him. He may lack passion, but he will be full of romance. Just hear the same music he hears and see the same dreams he sees. Is he running? Try to catch up with him. If you get tired on the way, don't worry. He will stop for you, hold your hand and build up your strength to run with him again!"

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9 comments:

Eb the Celeb said...

Proves what I said before... that gemini's are crazy... my dad is a gemini and he damn sure aint got it all...LOL!

Opinionated Diva said...

Interesting...I'm headed over to that site to see what is said about moi!

Vivrant Thang said...

VERY interesting. I am somewhat of a believer of astrology, mostly for entertainment purposes. I do believe a lot of character traits are tied to a person's sign. My gf just married a Gemini man and this seems to describe him to a tee. I don't know how she does it. Consistent behavior and stability are at the top of my list of requirements. I'm not the type of chick who wants to guess which personality is coming to dinner that night. LOL! The good traits are endearing though.

I'm a pretty typical Taurus woman and what they said described me pretty much to a tee, with one or two minor exceptions. I'm on the very cusp of Taurus/Gemini though so that might explain it. The one line that stood out is so true, "It's better not to provoke her anger or you will be very sorry." YES SIR! VERY. Bull in a China shop. But it takes a lot for me to get there.

nikki said...

i can't date a gemini man because he doesn't get jealous. the whole point of flirting with another guy is to exploit my man's insecurities by stirring up his jealousy. dang, that just takes ALL the fun out of dating and manipulating men. *le sigh*

Skoolboi Krush said...

Eb - You just have to understand how our minds work. I'm sure your dad is a cool dude.

Vivrant - I will remember to stay on your good side.

Nikki - There you go! Why you got to manipulate a brother into loving you? LOL

Pamalicious said...

As a bonafide textbook Gemini Woman - I would never mess around with someone just like me, lol

I did one time and the sarcasm was overwelming.

I'm going over to see what they say about me - but I already know, lol

Newbie on the blog here - let me get to finding out who yah are!

lea78 said...

u could have asked me about gemini or gemilie (as I like to call them) men. crazy as hell, sweet one minute and surly as hell the next. Some good sex though.

Divine Blackness said...

Gotta admit...I checked my out and it's pretty much on point too.

Skoolboi Krush said...

pamalicious - My mother and sister are geminis too. I wouldn't date y'all either! LOL

lea - Tell 'em about the sex again! LOL

divine blackness - Yeah, that was the first one I read that was on point with so much detail.