11.12.2008

TMI: How Do You Feel?

1. Have you ever felt guilty or ashamed after a sexual experience?

2. How often do you kiss or make out without it simply being a foreplay activity?

3. On a scale of 1-10, how content are you with your life? (1 is lowest, 10 is highest) Do you think 'content' and 'happy' the same thing?

4. What do you do to relieve stress?

5. On a scale of 1-10, how well do you receive constructive criticism?

Bonus: What percentage of women do you think are capable of handling being in a "friends with benefits" relationship? How about men?

14 comments:

nikki said...

1. yes
2. me loves to kiss so i can do that all day ery day without sex. unfortunately, my boyfriend is of the 'kissing cuz it leads to fucking' variety. i'm working on him though.
3. 7, cuz i'm actively working on making it a 10! content and happy can be the same thing. content is being happy with what you got!
4. masturbate. and yes, even at work.
5. 6, cuz i'm open to it, but i usually get mad initially. then after contemplation, i calm my ass down, kick my ego down a notch, and try to apply the advice in a positive way...but it takes some getting to that point. lol

clnmike said...

1- yup right around the time I sober up and saif WTH?!?!?

2- Not very often truthfully.

3- no to different things to me.

4- Dead@Nikki, pour myself a nice one.

5- 8, Say what you want but watch what you say.

bonus 80-90% men, women 60 to 70% but that number is skyrocketing.

Skoolboi Krush said...

nikki - you rubbing one out at work?...damn!

clnmike - that's why you have to drink in moderation..lol...and yes, i actually think the percentage for women is higher than that for men.

Reign said...

1. yes

2. very often

3. 7 or an 8. Content and happy are not the same. content is a satisfaction, nothing more nothing less. happy is an elated emotion.

4. i either do yoga or have sex. orgasm helps relieve the tension. ;-)

5. 5-7, depends on who's giving it.

Bonus: Men 90% Women 25%

The True Urban Queen aka Sharon said...

1. yes

2. sometimes

3. Not content at all I got dreams I want to fullfill.

4. dance, sex, excercise
(right now that it's alot of dancing and excerising)

5. depends on who is giving it and how the are presenting it.

Bonus: Men 90% Women I don't think it is as high. Much much lower.

Skoolboi Krush said...

reign - why does it matter who is giving the criticism, if they are telling the truth?

sharon - 90%? That is a high number.

Torrance Stephens - All-Mi-T said...

1. never
3. 10
4. playing with my kids, reading and writing and thinking
5. 8

bonus - 50%

Peyso said...

Bonus: What percentage of women do you think are capable of handling being in a "friends with benefits" relationship? How about men?

1) YES
2) yes, but I had to learn this from the boo piece
3) 7. One should never be content but always happy.
4) The gym
5) 7. This is b/c I'm pretty think skinned and nonchalant.
BONUS: 25% and 75%. This is b/c women often use sex as a means to facilitate a relationship when for some men its the only goal.

Reign said...

@ Skoolboi: you asked how well you take critism. how well i take it depends on whos giving it because depending on that persons character or what i know about them their truth may not be founded on sincerity. if i get negative criticism from my friend "mike" about how i'm handling a relationship, i can't take it for what it's worth cause i know his feelings about me. or if my coworker who i know doesn't like me tried to give me criticism or feedback i know to ignore it and go to a reliable source or get a second opinion. depends on the person and the type of criticism given, many variables.

Bombchell said...

3. no i dont think content & happy are the same
4. sleep, read, watch tv, movies & wish i was one of those that worked out to relieve stress
5. with a poker face

Eb the Celeb said...

I'm just going to touch on the bonus... I dont think there is a viable percentage. I think its all about the person's mindset. I used to be the type of chick that couldn't handle it but now I can and have had just strictly a jump off for the past 4 years and we are the best of friends with no pressure for anything more than just what we have in the bedroom. So I think its all on where the person is in their life.

S A V V Y F. Baybeh! said...

1. Have you ever felt guilty or ashamed after a sexual experience?
I'll take "FUCK YES!" for $200, SBK

2. How often do you kiss or make out without it simply being a foreplay activity?
Not much. I don't waste my lipular energy if there's no "Happy Ending."

3. On a scale of 1-10, how content are you with your life? (1 is lowest, 10 is highest) Do you think 'content' and 'happy' the same thing?
I'm at about a 3.47. There's LOTS of room for improvement.
And no, they aren't the same. Content is something you'll tolerate; happiness is a feeling of overwhelming joy (at least I've heard)


4. What do you do to relieve stress?
ESS EM OH KAY E!

5. On a scale of 1-10, how well do you receive constructive criticism?
Pretty Well. I'd say about a -3

Bonus: What percentage of women do you think are capable of handling being in a "friends with benefits" relationship? How about men?
Women: Negative Quintrillion%
Men: 86%

S A V V Y F. Baybeh! said...

1. Have you ever felt guilty or ashamed after a sexual experience?
I'll take "FUCK YES!" for $200, SBK

2. How often do you kiss or make out without it simply being a foreplay activity?
Not much. I don't waste my lipular energy if there's no "Happy Ending."

3. On a scale of 1-10, how content are you with your life? (1 is lowest, 10 is highest) Do you think 'content' and 'happy' the same thing?
I'm at about a 3.47. There's LOTS of room for improvement.
And no, they aren't the same. Content is something you'll tolerate; happiness is a feeling of overwhelming joy (at least I've heard)


4. What do you do to relieve stress?
ESS EM OH KAY E!

5. On a scale of 1-10, how well do you receive constructive criticism?
Pretty Well. I'd say about a -3

Bonus: What percentage of women do you think are capable of handling being in a "friends with benefits" relationship? How about men?
Women: Negative Quintrillion%
Men: 86%

bbgcmac said...

1) Of course.

2) Lately - I that's all that there has been. Kissing and I mean every now and then.

3) Content? 10. Happy I would have to say a 6 as I am striving for goals. I don't think happiness and contentment are the same. Content for me is to be thankful for the blessing that are before me - even if i never come up another level. The happiness level can be manipulated based on my accomplishments.

4) Definitely sex - though not often these days. Exercise definitely and music a must.

5) I would say an 7-8. Meaning that I initially feel a sting when i hear that I am not doing as well as I would like - a tinge of guilt if you will. But I receive it at the end of the day from people I know have my best interest at heart.

~ Don't know. Women know what they want and often don't want to be in a "relationship" at times. I would say probably more than I think.