Head

WARNING: ADULT CONTENT AND LANGUAGE

Only a week had passed and I was already feeling my desire for that sweet nectar of hers growing in the pit of my stomach. She knew what I wanted. She wanted it too. It was written all over her face as she laid butt naked sprawled across my bed with her legs spread wide, playing with her pretty pink pussy. She'd just arrived at my place only 5 minutes ago and there was no need for words...we both knew what needed to be done.

My dick grew hard with anticipation. It was now peeking out of my boxers trying to get a look at the feast that lay only a few inches in front of it. My initial impulse was to devour her as I had fantasized about during those long boring budget meetings that I had to endure this week. That's not the way she likes it, though. She prefers a gentle caress to get her juices flowing. My pleasure is her pleasure so that is just what I'll do.

I started out with soft, slow, sensual kisses to her lips, neck, breasts, stomach, pelvis, hips and everywhere else that was calling for my attention. As I moved in to taste her precious kitten, I could see that she was already getting wet. So I rolled my tongue over her swollen clit causing what felt like ripples of waves going through her body and mine. The first taste of her only made me want more. I pressed myself against her pussy so that she could feel my entire mouth on her and know how much I was enjoying her. She let out a soft moan of approval and whispered, "Baby, I missed you so much."

I needed her closer so I cradled my hands under her ass and pulled her hips closer to me. Alternating between soft kisses and quick licks of her clit. Her own hunger was starting to take over now because she was moving with me; rotating her hips in short circles so that she was feeding me more and more of that delicious treat. Because I knew her body..it was important to let her lead the way in the beginning, wait until her desire begged more of me. When it's right, she grabs the back of my head and guides me to her most sensitive spot. At that point, she is writhing, moaning and screaming with pleasure. That is just the reaction I've been trying to extract from her. This is becoming my obsession; making her feel this type of ecstasy.

Now, I'm kissing, licking and sucking on her throbbing clit. Letting out my own moans as my hunger is being fed. My pleasure is her pleasure so I slow it down again and make her thrust forward in search of my mouth. She calls out to me, almost frantic "Baby, don't stop!" I look up at her with a wet grin before plunging back into my task. I got her right where I want her. This time sucking her most sensitive spot between my lips and using my tongue to stimulate her every nerve. Repeating this, speeding up and slowing down, over and over again til I can hear her breathing stop {almost}.

I know what she needs to get over the edge but I'm holding it back as long as possible. Taunting her...enjoying the journey as much as the destination. I love to tease her and make her beg for what I planned on giving her all along. My tongue moves flat, wide and hard against her clit...full impact. Now she is back to moaning and letting out the occasional scream, "Baby, I don't want to cum yet. I want to feel you inside of me."

Those are the words that I've been waiting to hear since the last time.

I position myself between her legs and slide into her wet pussy. Feeling that initial thrust is an ecstasy that keeps me feening for her loving more each day.

Time to take it to the next level…

The Benchmarks

When you first start dating someone it takes time before you feel comfortable enough to show them your whole self. You have to make sure that they are worthy of seeing you, issues and all, in a way that makes you feel so vulnerable. There are no guidelines for when you should reveal things about yourself to a potential new mate; each person makes that decision for himself or herself. On the first date, you let them know about your crazy ex who might be stalking you. On date number five, you tell them that you did a short stint in jail for unpaid child support. Two months go by before you let them know that your credit is horrible and it will be ten years before you can buy anything without paying out the ass. After about a year, it’s alright to let them know that you are really separated and that ex that was stalking you is really your wife. No problem! Just let me know when you think it’s appropriate.

With that in mind, I was wondering what the benchmarks are for different sexual acts. How do you know if it’s alright to pull out your freakiest stuff on the first sexual encounter or if you should wait until the time is right? How do you decide that it’s the right time to show them your porn collection? Ladies, do you go down on a dude the first time you sleep with him? At what point do you decide to swallow? Guys, do you have to pull out all your tricks on the first night? If you wait, she might not ever put on that Girl Scout costume that is in the back of your closet. Like dating in general, I guess this is a personal decision.

When do you?

kiss on the mouth
tongue kiss
woman giving head
man going down on woman
woman swallowing man
69 position
introducing another female or male in the bedroom
sex in public
sex on a plane
whips and chains
going to strip clubs
dressing up...role playing
anal sex
introducing toys
introducing porn

I’m just asking because I know the rest of y’all are freaky like me. You don’t have to admit to anything that you don’t want to but you can email me if you really need to confess.

Step in the Arena

Say baby, can I be your slave?
I've got to admit girl, you're the shit girl
And I'm diggin' you like a grave
Now do they call you daughter to the spinnin pulsar, or
Or maybe Queen of 2,000 moons
Sister to the distant, yet risin' star
Is your name Yemaya?
Oh hell nah, it's got to be Oshun
Oooh, is that a smile me put on your face child
Wide as a field of jasmine and clover
Talk that talk honey, walk that walk money
High on legs that'll spite Jehovah
Shit, who am I?
It's not important
But they call me brother to the Night
And right now
I'm the blues in your left thigh
Tryin' to become the funk in your right

Up until a few years ago, I had not been single since I was 22 years old. I was either dating or married. After my divorce, I had to learn how to date. It has been a very enlightening experience in many ways. The one area that has been the biggest learning experience is sex. As a young man, I was never about putting up big numbers but I had my share of sexual partners. Even though it was with lesser frequency at the end of my marriage, sex was never an issue during that period of my life. As a single man, I have had the pleasure of letting the mo better make it mo better with some very wonderful women. Many of these ladies have proven to be very adventurous, confident and down right bold about asking for what they want in the bedroom. I’ve been more than willing to comply with their wishes. Dating women who are in their sexual prime will definitely broaden your ideas about what you will and won’t do sexually. I honestly think that we aren’t that different though. Matter of fact, listed below are the top five sexual fantasies for both men and women. The list is the same for both sexes. Tell me if you agree with this list or if you have something to add.

1. Stimulating Herself While You Watch
2. Allowing You To Dominate
3. Having Sex In Public
4. Making A Porn Video
5. Inviting A Third Party To Bed

Who am I?
I'll be whoever you say
But right now, I'm the sight raped hunter
Blindly pursuing you as my prey
And I just wanna give you injections, of sublime erections
And get you to dance to my rhythm
Make you dream archetypes, of black angels in flight
Upon wings, of distorted, contorted, metaphoric jism
Come on slim
Fuck yo' man, I ain't worried about him
It's you who I wanna step to my scene
'Cause rather than deal with the fallacy of this dry ass reality
I'd rather dance and romance your sweet ass, in a wet dream
Who am I?
Well they all call me brother to the Night
And right now, I'm the blues in your left thigh
Trying' to become the funk in your right
Is that alright?